Couples Therapy

Fed Up. Distant. Disconnected.

These are the most common ways couples I work with describe how they feel in their relationships when they first start to see me.

Like you, they are feeling completely disconnected from their partner.

Gradually the distance has grown so strong that they barely make eye contact with one another anymore.

Everything feels tense.

Trust has been lost.

Even small topics are avoided in fear that they will lead to another explosion.

Physical intimacy is off the table and you find it hard to imagine things getting better.

You both remember when it was different, better, the best, and cannot help but wonder over and over again…

How did we get here?

Every partnership is different.

There isn’t just one, singular path forward for all couples.

The work we do together will explore and examine when things started to change and how to get back to the good stuff.

The fact is that no relationship is perfect.

Some people believe there must be a major betrayal to cause this separation, but often it is a series of little things that have slowly created a hole in the relationship.

But when partners work together toward rebuilding the broken pieces and ruptures that have happened along the way, beautiful things can be created.

New challenges arise in relationships as people grow individually.

Let’s work together to ensure you’re growing together and not farther apart.

Take the first step toward moving your relationship down the path of renewing trust and finding re-connection, love, intimacy, and friendship.

Get off the path toward misery and divorce.

Are you willing to risk your own happiness and well-being? The well-being of your children? The dreams you and your partner(s) have? Your sex life? Your home, your wealth, your friendships?

Unlike what the movies depict, happily ever after does not just happen, it requires consistent work by committed partners.

The best time to start in is when you begin to feel a shift in your relationship and before that shift becomes a tear the size of the Grand Canyon.

What if my relationship is less ‘conventional?’

I have heard from some of my clients that they were afraid to call because their relationship isn’t the “norm.”
I’m here to tell you normal is a relative term and has no place here.

If you identify as polyamorous or have an open relationship, this is the place for you.

Each relationship I come across has a different center point, their own normal. And any relationship, no matter its definitions, can benefit from a safe space to explore needs and difficulties without fear of judgment from others.

Hold on to Hope

You do not have to choose between a life of dissatisfaction or getting divorced.

There’s a third option – you can call me!

Together we can transform your negative patterns of communication and rebuild trust. We will luminate harmful cycles in your relationship and resolve the issues causing emotional distance.

Then we will fortify the skills you need to emerge stronger, healthier, and closer than ever before.

Don’t wait another minute

I have the tools to help guide you to where you want to go and help repair the damages of the past before it’s too late.

You’re ready to feel relief, happiness, and connection with your partner(s) again.

Call me today at (973) 498-8353, and I can help you get started down the path to fulfillment, trust, and absolute bliss.